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Making Valentine’s Day Special

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When I was a little girl my dad always bought me and my sisters Valentine’s Day gifts.  It was usually something small, often a plastic container that was filled with conversation hearts or a heart-shaped box of chocolates, maybe a small knick-knack or stuffed animal.  I remember how that little trinket waiting on the kitchen table in the morning would bring such joy.  I remember showing it off to my friends in school and it being my prized possession for at least the next several days.

This year I am treasuring those memories a little bit more because it is our first Valentine’s Day without my dad, who passed away very suddenly last month.

I’ve got to admit that I was dreading this weekend.  Not only is it the first holiday without my dad, but his birthday is also Monday, a double-whammy of reminders not even a month into our grieving process.

To counteract the sadness that I’ve been feeling, I decided to focus on making this Valentine’s special for E, the way my dad always made it special for me.  So, out came the trinkets!

Car Valentines

I decided that it was only appropriate to celebrate E’s current true love – cars!  So, I came up with these little valentines, one for E and others for his cousins and some special Stroller Strides friends.  I was really happy with the way that they turned out and was super-proud of myself for creating valentines that were non-food (i.e., completely safe and healthy) and something that every toddler loves.  They even leant themselves to a cute, Valentine’s Day-appropriate saying.

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He was so excited to get a car and was surprisingly willing to share the love. (I was a little worried that he was not going to like the idea of giving away cars.)

IMG_4036I added to our Valentine’s Day festivities, with another thing every two-year-old loves – cookies!  We used Ina Garten’s shortbread cookie recipe (by the way, shortbread is egg-free!).  We substituted soy-free Earth Balance for the butter and topped them off with safe red sprinkles (Wilton are safe for us).  They were a lot of fun to make and E gets so excited when he gets a “surprise” for dessert 🙂

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Also, my heart-shaped strawberry project from last year, inspired me to use cookie-cutters to Valentine-ify his standard peanut butter and jelly sandwich.  I love that something as simple as cookie cutters can make so many safe foods more fun!

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My Valentine’s Day was totally made first thing this morning, though, when E said, “Happy Valentine’s Day Mommy, Daddy” and initiated a big group hug.  Seriously could not think of a better gift!

I hope you are having a great Valentine’s Day with your loved ones.  Hug them a little closer and extra long this year.

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 Happy Valentine’s Day to My First Valentine! I Love You Dad!

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A Season of Celebrations

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I am ready to celebrate! Sunday we declared rice an official pass and yesterday E passed the initial oat challenge!!  We still have to finish out the oat trial, but things are looking good!

If you recall, I was not looking forward to this December.  In fact, I was dreading it.  I was so focused on all of the challenges that we were set to face that I didn’t even think about all of the things that we would have to celebrate this season.  I was so caught up in the stress and negative aspects of FPIES that I totally forgot that I was going to get to spend Christmastime with a two-year-old!  Without knowing it, my own little elf has reminded me of what this time of year is all about.  So, in contrast to the post I wrote about a month ago, I want to share with you all of the fun that we’ve been having this holiday season, despite living with FPIES and enduring serial food trials.

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We kicked off the season with a dairy challenge the Monday before Thanksgiving. I know, how festive!  Despite the stress and uncertainty of the trial, we managed to have a wonderful Thanksgiving.  Jonathan’s sister and her husband hosted a beautiful family dinner.  They graciously offered to make it safe for E but we decided to err on the side of caution.  The possibility of mistakes or cross-contact was too high, especially during the dairy trail, so I brought a safe dinner for E.  It wasn’t necessarily a traditional Thanksgiving meal but he gobbled up his turkey meatball, mashed potatoes, applesauce, green beans, and corn bread.  He also ate in a highchair so that he was a little more removed from the table (and allergens).  I don’t think he even noticed that he wasn’t at the table or that his dinner was different.  He loved eating with the whole family, especially his cousins!

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After Thanksgiving, the countdown to Christmas began!  For as long as I can remember my mom has always made a paper chain to help us countdown to Christmas.  I was so excited to make one for E this year because he can finally understand what it signifies.   Every night before he goes to bed, he rips a link off and declares that we are “one day closer Christmas and Santa Claus will be here.”  It’s the cutest thing ever!

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After two weeks of trialling dairy we aren’t totally sure it’s safe and decided to retrial it after things settle down in January.  It’s disappointing to spend another holiday dairy-free but we are becoming pros now at finding substitutes and modifying traditions.  E is in love with the idea of “kissmiss coosies.”  In addition to the safe chocolate chip cookies, we have been experimenting with recipes for shortbread cookies (which are naturally egg-free!).  Baking and decorating the cookies is almost as fun as eating them!

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Next up was the rice challenge, which went so well we were able to combine it with a visit to see Santa Claus.  E has been so excited by the whole idea of Santa Claus and talks about him every day.  I think he was a little starstruck when he first met the jolly old elf in person, but managed to file his request for his “own kitchen” (which is all he’s been talking about!).  He was also lucky enough to get a private visit from Santa Claus who arrived at his Grandi and Grandad’s house via firetruck!  The icing on the (allergen-free) cake was definitely the email that he received from Santa last night.  Santa sent a video that announced that E had made it to the nice list!  We have watched this video about 10 times already and each time E gets more and more excited!

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We’ve also been spending time watching some classic Christmas TV specials and, of course, choosing and trimming our Christmas tree.

E’s excitement about Christmas and Santa Claus has absolutely been contagious.  I think actually at this point I might be more excited for the big day than he is.  I can’t remember the last time I was looking this much forward to Christmas!  Seriously, I’m giddy.

When you are in throes of FPIES, or any other stressor, it’s hard to step back and remember that this is not the only thing going on in your life.  The holidays are full of parties that center around food (food that is full of dairy, egg, and shellfish).  So, having a child with food allergies can be stressful.  It means more planning.  It means more work.  It means constant vigilance.  But it also means that we will spend lots of time surrounded by people we love and who love us.  It means that E will get to hang out with his family, many of whom we don’t see enough.  Sure, some traditions have to be tweaked, but E is two! He doesn’t know that there are cookies that we’ll omit from our baking menu this year.  He doesn’t care that he can’t partake in my dad’s famous Christmas Eve shrimp scampi or Aunt Jean’s lasagna.  He’s never had those things and would probably even prefer a peanut butter and jelly sandwich.  I’m definitely guilty of mourning the things he can’t do and I love that he is always ready to remind me of all that he can do and what’s important to him, and what’s really important about the holidays (hint: it’s actually not the food).

I hope that the joy of our Christmas season can bring hope to those of you that are in the thick of life with FPIES or any other challenge.  We’ve had so much fun watching E getting excited for Christmas and enjoying all that comes with this time of year that we’ve been able to shift our focus away from FPIES (even though we were in the middle of some pretty serious food trials).  The opportunity to take a step back and remember that there is so much more to life than FPIES has been a bit of a Christmas gift (and lesson) to me.

Thank you for celebrating our passes and Christmastime with us.  I wish you the joy and excitement of a two year old on Christmas and a happy and healthy new year full of your own celebrations!

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Dairy, Soy, and Egg-Free Chocolate Chip Cookies!!

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I feel like I’ve been neglecting the blog a little bit lately so to make up for it I baked cookies!

I love chocolate chip cookies!  There are few things in life better than a homemade chocolate chip cookie.  They seem to be the perfect fit for any situation so I always try to have the ingredients on hand.  You just never know when you’ll want (or need) to whip up a batch.

I think I make a pretty good chocolate chip cookie and I have even been told that they are the best part of our Christmas party menu (which is fairly elaborate).  I love that people enjoy them as much as I do and love to share them (after some are safely put aside for my own enjoyment, of course).

Sadly, after E’s dairy allergy diagnosis, baking just wasn’t as fun as it used to be.  Besides, I barely had time for a shower when E was an infant, let alone baking.  Also, as I started to spend more and more time in the kitchen making safe foods for E, it didn’t make sense to waste time baking something he couldn’t eat.  Not to mention the fact that I was depressed that he might never get to eat my cookies.   So I went a long time without baking cookies.

By this past Christmas we had a pretty good grasp of FPIES and E’s allergen and I was feeling fairly confident about my E-safe cooking skills.  So I decided to adapt “my recipe” to be safe for E*.  With a bunch of substitutions they turned out well and we thought they were pretty tasty.  I’ll admit, they aren’t quite the same as good ol’ buttery, eggy, milk chocolatey cookies.  But I like them and still manage to eat way too many.

Also, E loves them! Words cannot describe how full my heart gets while watching him finally enjoy one of my cookies.

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Chocolate Chip Cookies – Dairy-Free, Soy-Free, Egg-Free (can also be Barley-Free)

Makes about 60 cookies

Ingredients

2 1/4 cups all-purpose flour (before we passed barley I used white whole wheat flour, which also worked)

1 tsp baking soda

1 tsp salt

1 cup (2 sticks) Earth Balance Soy Free Buttery Sticks

3/4 cup granulated sugar

3/4 cup packed brown sugar

1 tsp vanilla extract

2 chia “eggs” = 2 tbsp chia seed + 6 tbsp water

1 10 oz bag Enjoy Life Mini Chips

Directions

Preheat oven to 375º

Make your chia eggs: Grind the chia seed and add the water.  Let sit until you are ready for them (at least 5 minutes).

Combine flour, baking soda, and salt.

In a separate bowl, beat Earth Balance, granulated sugar, brown sugar, and vanilla extract until creamy.  Slowly add the chia eggs a tbsp at a time, beating well after each addition.  Gradually add the flour mixture.

Stir in the mini chips.

Drop by rounded tablespoon onto an ungreased cookie sheet.

Bake for 9 to 11 minutes or until golden brown.  Let cool on the cookie sheet for about 2 minutes then move to a plate to cool completely.

Enjoy!

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*Ok, true confession time: “my cookie” recipe is actually the recipe that is on the package of Nestle Toll House Morsels.  I dare you to find a better recipe that can even hold up to all of my substitutions!